2 Sam. 10-11: “David Tries To Make Peace With Ammon /
Commits Adultery With Bathsheba”
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1. INTRO:
1.1.
In our last study, we looked at chapters 8
and 9 of 2 Samuel:
1.1.1.
In chapter 8, we saw that David initiated an
aggressive campaign to conquer and subdue all of his enemies within the land
that the Lord had promised to
1.1.2.
In chapter 9, we saw that for Jonathan’s sake that
David made a search for any living descendant of Saul that he might show
kindness to him :
1.1.2.1.
David found Mephibosheth, a son of Jonathan, and he
brought him into his palace daily to eat.
Plus, he restored to Mephibosheth all of the possessions that had
belonged to Saul, his grandfather.
1.1.2.2.
We saw that David’s dealings with Mephibosheth paint
an incredible picture for us of the grace of God that He extends and has for
each of us as His children.
1.2.
In our study today, we are going to look at chapters
10 and 11 of 2 Samuel.
1.2.1.
In chapter 10, David sends a delegation to the sons
of Ammon to grieve with them over the death of their king. However, the Ammonites interpret this as a
ploy to spy out their land to conquer them and they publicly humiliate those
spies. David then gathers his army and
goes against the Ammonites and has a great conquest of them.
1.2.2.
In chapter 11, the sordid story of David committing
adultery with Bathsheba is told.
1.2.2.1.
We will look at what led to David’s temptation with
Bathsheba.
1.2.2.2.
We will seek to learn as much as we can from this
story so that each of us can hopefully keep from committing such an act
ourselves some day.
1.2.2.3.
In the scriptures, we see that the many stories of
the good as well as evil committed by the heroes of the faith gives us
assurance of the validity of the word of God.
None of the stories of the failures of God’s saints found in the
scripture ever makes light of the sin that they committed, nor does it excuse
the sinful actions. These stories are
included for our instruction who throughout the ages find ourselves in similar
temptations and circumstances. It is
intended by the Lord that we must learn by the failures of God’s saints of the
past so that we ourselves do not go and do the same ourselves.
1.2.2.4.
This story becomes very disturbing and ugly as we
see the man after God’s own heart stooping to the lowest level. David’s sin of adultery leads to further sin,
when Bathsheba tells David that she has conceived a child as a result of their
affair, and as sin leads to sin David eventually plots and carries out the
murder of Bathsheba’s husband in order to cover up his sin. Because of David’s sin, not only is
Bathsheba’s husband Uriah murdered by David, but also several of David’s other
faithful fighting men are likewise killed.
1.2.2.5.
David’s sin has grave consequences. We will see in the study next week that when
Nathan the prophet eventually is called by the Lord to come and to rebuke David
in 2 Sam. 11:14 that he tells David that, “he has given the enemies of the
Lord great occasion to blaspheme.”
Even today we find that this story of the sin of David in committing
adultery causes people to stumble in their faith and sometimes even choose to
turn away from the Lord. How could a man
of God do such a thing?
1.2.2.6.
We see in our study next week that grace eventually
wins out when the Lord forgives David of his sin.
2.
VS 10:1-5 - “1
Now it happened afterwards that the king of the Ammonites died, and Hanun
his son became king in his place. 2 Then David said, “I will show
kindness to Hanun the son of Nahash, just as his father showed kindness to me.”
So David sent some of his servants to console him concerning his father. But
when David’s servants came to the land of the Ammonites, 3 the
princes of the Ammonites said to Hanun their lord, “Do you think that David is
honoring your father because he has sent consolers to you? Has David not sent his
servants to you in order to search the city, to spy it out and overthrow it?” 4
So Hanun took David’s servants and shaved off half of their beards, and
cut off their garments in the middle as far as their hips, and sent them away. 5
When they told it to David, he sent to meet them, for the men were
greatly humiliated. And the king said, “Stay at
2.1.
This story in chapter 10 of 2 Samuel gives us the
background of how the battle against Ammon described in 2 Sam. 8:2 had come about
for David and
2.2.
In chapter 8 of 2 Samuel we saw how that David had
come to be a world power by aggressively going out and conquering or subduing
the enemies of Israel in all of the land that had been given to Abraham and his
descendants as an inheritance. The
Ammonites were one of the peoples conquered and subdued by David and his army
in that chapter
2.3.
At the outset, it might seem like our present
chapter is a continuation of chapter 9 which described David going and making a
search for any descendant of Saul that he might show kindness to him. Now, you might think David is extending to
the Ammonites that kindness and grace that he had shown to Mephibosheth, the
son of Jonathan. However, there are two
problems with these notions :
2.3.1.
The events of this chapter actually occurred before
the events of chapter 9 and as David was completing his conquest and subduing
of all the promised inheritance of Abraham.
This battle is recorded in chapter 8 of the book.
2.3.2.
This was the king of the Ammonites, one of
2.3.2.1.
When the children of
2.3.2.2.
If you look further back in Samuel, you will see
that this very man whom David now is supposedly mourning for is the same wicked
king who in 1 Sam. 11:1,2 had told the people of the city of Jabesh-gilead that
he would make a covenant with them if he could first gouge out all of their
right eyes, “2 But Nahash the Ammonite said to them, “I will
make it with you on this condition, that I will gouge out the right eye
of every one of you, thus I will make it a reproach on all Israel.””
2.4.
So, why then did David seek at this point in time to
show kindness to the Ammonites at the death of their king? I propose that he did so because he wanted to
form a political alliance with them because now being at the end of his long
campaign to conquer and subdue all of his enemies he was tired of the constant
struggle that he had been going through, tired of warfare, tired of conflict,
tired of being away from home, and yes tired of being zealous for the Lord.
2.4.1.
It had been several years that David had been
continually fighting the enemies of the Lord in the land of promise. In fact, we saw in our last study concerning
Mephibosheth, when David sought to show kindness and grace to Mephibosheth,
that Mephibosheth was at that time a young man.
When king Saul had first been killed and David was made king,
Mephibosheth was only 5 years old. Much
time had passed for David, many trials had been endured, and much war had been
fought.
2.4.2.
We saw earlier in the study of 1 Samuel how that
David had gotten tired of the endless trials of constantly running from King
Saul who was hunting him like an animal to kill him and that for that reason he
had taken his mighty fighting men and gone and lived among the Philistines and
even served the Philistine king. David
is making the same mistake again you see, this time with the Ammonites. Again, David is trying to circumvent his
trials and tribulations by compromise.
2.5.
We Christians must learn the lesson that though we
too can choose to remove ourselves from under the chastening hand of the Lord
in our life, thus short-circuiting the hand of the Lord conforming our
character, that the consequences of doing this are great. We will see in the next chapter that this
same compromising attitude actually leads to David’s committing adultery with
Bathsheba.
3.
VS 10:6-19 - “6
Now when the sons of Ammon saw that they had become odious to David, the
sons of Ammon sent and hired the Arameans of Beth-rehob and the Arameans of
Zobah, 20,000 foot soldiers, and the king of Maacah with 1,000 men, and the men
of Tob with 12,000 men. 7 When David heard of it, he sent
Joab and all the army, the mighty men. 8 The sons of Ammon came out
and drew up in battle array at the entrance of the city, while the Arameans of
Zobah and of Rehob and the men of Tob and Maacah were by themselves in
the field. 9 Now when Joab saw that the battle was set against him
in front and in the rear, he selected from all the choice men of
3.1.
The Lord causes David’s misguided attempt to show
kindness to the Ammonites to work according to His purpose and give David a
great victory over not only the the Ammonites but also the Arameans.
3.2.
The sons of Ammon knew that their publicly humiliating
the ambassadors of David had infuriated David and that he would mobilize Israel
to attack them, and knowing of the great success that Israel had been having in
battle, the Ammonites hire a bunch of Aramean mercenaries to fight Israel along
with them.
3.3.
David knew that he would have to fight on two
fronts, the Arameans ahead of them and the Ammonites behind them, therefore
with the Lord’s help he came up with a brilliant strategy that brought about
victory. David determined to place his
best fighting men to fight the Aramean mercenaries in the front, then David had
his brother Abishai take the rest of the army and fight the Ammonites in the
rear.
3.4.
David ends up having an incredible conquest of the
Arameans as we read that he killed, ‘700 charioteers of the
Arameans and 40,000 horsemen and struck down Shobach the commander of their
army.’
3.5.
Those left of the Arameans made peace with David and
4.
VS 11:1-4 - “1
Then it happened in the spring, at the time when kings go out to
battle, that David sent Joab and his servants with him and all Israel, and
they destroyed the sons of Ammon and besieged Rabbah. But David stayed at
4.1.
In our discussion of the previous chapter, I
mentioned that the motive and attitude of David in seeking to show kindness to
the king of the Ammonites had led to his committing adultery with
Bathsheba. There we saw that after years
of fighting wearying battle after battle that David sought to just end all of
the strife and make peace with the enemy of the Lord. David was again seeking to get himself out
from under the chastening hand of the Lord and the trials he was being called
to endure.
4.2.
Here we see that when the spring time appeared,
which was the time when kings went out to war because of weather now permitting
them, that instead of go out and lead his men in the conquest of his enemies
that David instead opted to stay home and slough off his duty. This led David to be entertained with
temptation. There are some lessons to be
learned from this story of David concerning temptation :
4.2.1.
Temptation will be endured whenever we slough off
the responsibilities that the Lord has put before us.
4.2.1.1.
David should have been out leading his army in
battle.
4.2.2.
We are to beware of being lazy because laziness
becomes a workshop for the Devil to ensnare us into various sins, as the old
proverb goes, “An idle hand is the Devil’s workshop.”
4.2.2.1.
David had too much time on his hands.
4.2.3.
There is never a time when we should think that we
are safe and that we can let down our guard because temptation will knock on
our doors at an hour we do not expect it.
Our guard must always be kept up expecting that the Devil shall seek to
tempt us and lead us down a path that ultimately leads to destruction if we
choose to stay on it.
4.2.3.1.
In relaxing and being at ease, David had taken off
his armor, however the word of God tells us in Eph. 6:11, “11 Put on the full armor of
God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil.”
4.2.3.2.
In Matt. 26:41, Jesus told His disciples in the
4.2.4.
David had a wandering eye.
4.2.4.1.
He was looking around for something to get in
trouble with. He gets up out of bed and
wanders around and then looks out over all of the houses around his
palace.
4.2.4.2.
Beware of a lustful wandering eye and of looking at
the grass on the other side of the fence that always seems to be greener.
4.3.
In James 1:13-15 we read of a progression that
occurs when a person commits a sin, “13 Let no one say when he is
tempted, “I am being tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He
Himself does not tempt anyone. 14 But each one is tempted when he is
carried away and enticed by his own lust. 15 Then when lust has
conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth
death.” Alan Redpath notes the
following progression of events which lead up to David committing the sin of
adultery with Bathsheba :
4.3.1.
A thought.
4.3.1.1.
Being relaxed and kicking back with all of the time
in the world on his hands, on this evening the king decides to look out over
his kingdom. In the back of his mind he
is probably wondering if he might be able to see something unseemly.
4.3.1.2.
It is not a sin to be tempted, for all are tempted,
even Jesus was tempted. However, what we
do when we are tempted can lead to sin if we are not careful.
4.3.1.2.1.
If you are being tempted you need to run and flee
that temptation as soon as possible before you get sucked into full blown
sin.
4.3.2.
A look.
4.3.2.1.
David looks out and sees Bathsheba bathing on her
roof top.
4.3.2.2.
In
4.3.2.3.
In the dark, David may not have hardly seen anything
of Bathsheba’s body as she bathed. However,
the temptation was now placed firmly in his mind as he continued to look out
his window and consider her.
4.3.2.4.
Proverbs 4:23 warns us to be careful to continually
watch over our hearts with all diligence, “23 Watch over your
heart with all diligence, For from it flow the springs of life.” In Mark 7:21 Jesus taught us why it is that
we must watch over our hearts, “21 “For from within , out of the
heart of men , proceed the evil thoughts , fornications , thefts , murders ,
adulteries ,”
4.3.3.
A desire.
4.3.3.1.
Lust takes place in the heart before the act of sin
is actually committed. After taking a
long look down at Bathsheba as she bathed David becomes committed to having an
illicit relationship with Bathsheba.
4.3.4.
Committing of the act.
4.3.4.1.
David has Bathsheba brought to him and lies with
her.
4.4.
David’s sin here seems even worse when we consider :
4.4.1.
David is already 50 years old, so why is struggling
with uncontrolled lust such as might happen to a younger man in his prime?
4.4.2.
David already had X number of wives, what in the
world did he need another woman for? Why
does he think that he is so important as to deserve this?
4.4.3.
David was the king of
4.4.4.
Uriah, Bathsheba’s husband was such an honorable,
loyal, righteous ( he was obviously a Gentile proselyte ), and faithful man,
and on the battlefield he was sacrificing his very life daily for the king, so
how could David have sinned against such a man as this?
4.5.
I do want to bring out here that Bathsheba was not
innocent in this matter. She should have
known better than to bathe up on her roof.
Personally, I believe that she was scheming all along. She knew that the king was in town and that
his window overlooked her roof. She
thought that nothing could be more exciting than a little tryst with the king
of
4.6.
The roots for David’s falling into the sin of
committing adultery with Bathsheba really go back 20 years at this point. We have already seen how 20 years earlier
that David had begun to multiply wives to himself as he was brought into
power. With each new conquest or
position of power and influence David added more wives to himself. We have mentioned many times that he did this
in knowing disobedience to Deut. 17:17 which forbid kings from multiplying wives
to themselves.
4.7.
Someone once said, “Power corrupts and absolute
power corrupts absolutely.” As David
rose in power in becoming
5.
VS 11:5-15 - “5
The woman conceived; and she sent and told David, and said, “I am
pregnant.” 6 Then David sent to Joab, saying, “Send me Uriah
the Hittite.” So Joab sent Uriah to David. 7 When Uriah came to him,
David asked concerning the welfare of Joab and the people and the state of the
war. 8 Then David said to Uriah, “Go down to your house, and wash
your feet.” And Uriah went out of the king’s house, and a present from the king
was sent out after him. 9 But Uriah slept at the door of the king’s
house with all the servants of his lord, and did not go down to his house. 10
Now when they told David, saying, “Uriah did not go down to his house,”
David said to Uriah, “Have you not come from a journey? Why did you not go down
to your house?” 11 Uriah said to David, “The ark and
5.1.
Horror of horrors for David-- he finds out now that Bathsheba has conceived
his child.
5.2.
We see in this story that David tried so hard to
cover up his sin. No one knew about the
matter of him having lain with Bathsheba, with the exception of David,
Bathsheba, and the servants who went and brought the woman to king David.
5.3.
King David’s plan for secrecy fails however when
Bathsheba becomes pregnant as a result of her affair with David.
5.4.
David was in a huge dilemma. According to the Law of Moses, adulterers
were to be stoned to death. Uriah the
Hittite, the husband of Bathsheba, had not had relations with his wife in a
good long while because he had been with the army in battle against Israel’s
enemies, therefore when Uriah would find out that Bathsheba was pregnant Uriah
would know immediately that he was not the father. Uriah could then call for Bathsheba to be
stoned to death, taking even the life of the child within her fathered by
David.
5.5.
David determines to send to the battlefield for
Uriah the Hittite to come to him. David
pretends that the reason that he has requested that Uriah come to him was
because he respected Uriah’s opinion and he wanted to get an update on how the
war was progressing.
5.6.
In reality the reason that David wanted Uriah to
come to him was so that Uriah and his wife Bathsheba could have relations and
then Uriah would not know that the child that Bathsheba would deliver would not
be his.
5.7.
David tries to arrange for Uriah to go to his house
and have relations with his wife as he tells Uriah to go and wash his feet and
even gives Uriah some sort of house-warming gift. To “wash his feet” was just an
expression David used to tell Uriah to go and to relax and enjoy his wife.
5.8.
Uriah however was such a dedicated soldier that he
tells David that he refuses to go to his house and enjoy that comfort because
after all his fellow soldiers were having to sleep out in the open fields by
night and fight by day and the Ark and Israel and Judah were staying in
temporary shelters.
5.8.1.
This must have been a rebuke for David because David
had refused to go off into battle this spring vying instead to sit back at home
and enjoy his comfort and ease.
5.9.
Next, David attempts to get Uriah drunk thinking
that when Uriah gets drunk that he will naturally want to go and to sleep with
his wife at his house. However, though
Uriah does imbibe some drink, there is no way that he is going to go to his
home and be with his wife when the rest of David’s army were roughing it in the
elements and fighting hard by day.
5.10.
Because of pride, David is so concerned about hiding
his own sin that he finally determines that he must have Uriah murdered in
order to keep Uriah from accusing Bathsheba of committing adultery.
6.
VS 11:16-25 -
“16 So it was as Joab kept watch on the city,
that he put Uriah at the place where he knew there were valiant men. 17
The men of the city went out and fought against Joab, and some of the
people among David’s servants fell; and Uriah the Hittite also died. 18 Then
Joab sent and reported to David all the events of the war. 19 He
charged the messenger, saying, “When you have finished telling all the events
of the war to the king, 20 and if it happens that the king’s wrath
rises and he says to you, ‘Why did you go so near to the city to fight? Did you
not know that they would shoot from the wall? 21 ‘Who struck down
Abimelech the son of Jerubbesheth? Did not a woman throw an upper millstone on
him from the wall so that he died at Thebez? Why did you go so near the
wall?’—then you shall say, ‘Your servant Uriah the Hittite is dead also.’ ” 22
So the messenger departed and came and reported to David all that Joab
had sent him to tell. 23 The messenger said to David, “The
men prevailed against us and came out against us in the field, but we pressed
them as far as the entrance of the gate. 24 “Moreover, the archers
shot at your servants from the wall; so some of the king’s servants are dead,
and your servant Uriah the Hittite is also dead.” 25 Then David said
to the messenger, “Thus you shall say to Joab, ‘Do not let this thing displease
you, for the sword devours one as well as another; make your battle against the
city stronger and overthrow it’; and so encourage him.”” - Joab follows David’s orders and causes Uriah
the Hittite to be killed in battle and then reports the news of Uriah’s death
back to David
6.1.
Here we see that following David’s orders, Joab
jeopardized his entire army by bringing the men too close to the wall of the
city. The archers on the walls then were
able to shoot and kill some of Joab’s men.
6.2.
Joab sends a messenger to David to report to him
about how the battle went, but also instructs the man to be sure to mention
that Uriah had been killed in the battle.
6.3.
David sends back a note to Joab saying in essence
for him not to let the incident of the death of Uriah bother him because it
came about as a result of one of the unfortunate results of combat.
6.4.
Then, David encourages Joab to make the battle
against the city stronger and overthrow it.
7.
VS 11:26-27 -
“26 Now when the wife of Uriah heard that Uriah
her husband was dead, she mourned for her husband. 27 When the time
of mourning was over, David sent and brought her to his house and she
became his wife; then she bore him a son. But the thing that David had done was
evil in the sight of the Lord.” - After Bathsheba had some time to mourn over
the death of her husband, David calls her to his house and she becomes yet
another wife for David
7.1.
David thought that he had now succeeded in covering
his sin. To this point in time, only
Bathsheba, some of his servants, and Joab knew that David had committed
adultery with Bathsheba.
7.2.
However, the Lord never lets a person get away with
anything. What David did was evil in the
sight of the Lord. David’s conscience
will brutilize him over the next year and then we will see in the next chapter
how that the Lord sends Nathan the prophet to come to David and to rebuke him
for his sin.
7.3.
Though David did not suffer capital punishment for
his sin, the Lord saw to it that he did not get away with these sins, for we will
read in the next chapter when Nathan comes and rebukes David and tells him that
the sword would now never depart from David’s house (2 Sam. 12:10), plus the
baby conceived by Bathsheba will die.
7.3.1.
From this point on David’s life is in constant
upheaval due to domestic troubles.
7.4.
We will also see in our next study how that when
David finally confessed and repented of his sins concerning Bathsheba and her
husband Uriah that the Lord in His grace and mercy forgave David and continued
to work through his life as king over Israel.
In Rom. 5:20 we read about how that God’s grace abounds over sin, “20 The Law came in so that the
transgression would increase; but where sin increased, grace abounded all the
more.”
8.
CONCLUSIONS:
8.1.
As we consider David’s falling into adultery with
Bathsheba and all of his actions that followed that, we need to learn from his
mistakes :
8.1.1.
Beware of shirking your responsibility.
8.1.2.
Beware of being lazy and having nothing to do. Always be alert, watching.
8.1.3.
Never let your guard down, you are never safe.
8.1.4.
Flee temptation, don’t try to fight it.
8.2.
If today, you find yourself in David’s place under
condemnation because of your own sin, remember that the Lord does provide
forgiveness and atonement for the sins that we have committed, even after we
have become one of God’s people. 1 John
1:9-2:2 tells us as Christians God’s remedy for sinners, “9 If we confess our sins, He
is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness. 10 If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a
liar and His word is not in us. 1 My little children, I am writing
these things to you so that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an
Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous; 2 and He
Himself is the propitiation for our sins; and not for ours only, but also for those
of the whole world.”